Thursday, July 15, 2010

Big E, little e ...

Embarrassed. Enraged. Exasperated.

A friend has a friend in Africa (whom she has all but legally adopted to be her son). She's been over twice and he is trying to get his family here for a visit to learn about our culture in regards to farming, cattle-raising and whatever else.

For months, this has been in the works. Meetings set up. Plane tickets almost bought. Letters of support on his behalf for the American embassy to allow him and his family Visas to come visit. After spending $400USD just to meet with someone about potentially getting Visitation Visas, he had his meeting.

He sat in a room by himself, with all of his documentation on his lap.
She comes in and asks him his name. He answers.
She asks what his monthly salary is. He answers.
She doesn't ask for papers or letters of support.
She knows absolutely nothing about him or his interest to come.
She looks at him and says he is not allowed in our country.

He doesn't make enough money and she doesn't think that he can afford to get back to his home country and likely won't even try. And I get angry. I get the whole alien problem but he played by the rules and was denied in the blink of an eye. Because he doesn't make enough money.

He makes $350USD a month and that affords him a home, cattle and the ability to provide for his wife and daughter. It is arrogant of us to think that everyone that visits wants to schlep french fries at McDonald's and not return home because of the rich, lavish lifestyle he will obviously enjoy while bringing home $950USD each month. It's laughable. Is it so hard to believe that he wants to return home? Does it wound our ego to think that he - what? - doesn't want to live here forever, in the land of freedom, opportunity, and all things bejeweled?

Our system failed him.
And for that, I am disappointed.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am that friend. I thank you for writing this and I thank you for feeling the "E's" along with me. We are an arrogant nation who believe that any person who wants to visit America of course will try to stay. My son is offended, so am I.

Anonymous said...

and so is Auntie D!

Jen Craun said...

terrible. Is there any recourse? Or anything that "friend" can do from this side?

Anonymous said...

Friend here again....we have our Senator's office working on this but unfortunately, a Senator does not have the power to call an embassy and make them give him a Visa...only someone high up in the US State Dept. can do that. Anyone have State Dept. ties? Here is what my Son said last night, "What do I have to do Mom, do I have to kill myself and cut out my heart and leave it for them so they know I will come back for it? Oh, but then I'll already be dead, won't I?" His wife said, "Are we just monkeys in a zoo over here for rich people to come and look at but we are not ever supposed to escape our cage?" Yeah, what do I say to that?

Rosey said...

so very heartbreaking.

Anonymous said...

i WILL SPEAK TO SOMEONE I KNOW AND LOVE IN IMMIGRATION FOR SUGGESTIONS